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Follow a former prosecutor’s descent into the madness known as criminal defense work
Family law cases, whether divorced, never married, or post-divorce, tend to go in one of three directions: 1. Here are the issues. Let’s work to resolve them, get these people divorced/a parenting plan entered. This is the middle…
I will never get over 9/11, I refuse to forget those that died, and the fact that New York is run by a Muslim is a disgrace. I want to burn it all to the ground, and, maybe in 20 years, you can vote for me to do exactly that.…
What was Grief share like? I am still working through the death of my former fiancee and mother to our son. Most of the time, I’m great. Other times, such as certain days or milestones (like our son starting Kindergarten), I can…
Shameless plug - I do paid consultations. You can DM me here or on X, A paid consultation with me can either be an analysis of your current case or what you might be looking at. Why do a consultation with me or another attorney?…
The weirdest part about getting older is how fast the body can break down and from what I went in to see a Dr. about getting on peptides. I had been on HcG for about eight months, was off for about four weeks. Felt ok, was…
Lindsay Graham was set to be on Meet the Press yesterday. God had other ideas. I was set to be at the office by now. I walked in from working out with my dad, and heard a familiar voice. “Daddy, where are you?” It was 530 am.…
My favorite movie is A Few Good Men It is the number one movie I can see 5 seconds of and know exactly what is going on, and many times I’ll watch. Heck, I am probably watching tonight just thinking about it (The Fugitive is a…
“I need a lawyer who is going to FIGHT for me!” I hear this all the time. I explain that yes, I’ll try your case if need be. I’ll go back and forth and do what I can to get you the best outcome. IF NEED BE Many people do not know…
Family cases are emotional. Emotions are how you ruin your kids, your finances, and your soul I see people do the craziest things once court starts. Usually the crazy starts before court, but something about the actual…
“I’m Kong, I crush cases, handle my military business, and my son is doing great!” That’s the narrative that comes across my brain once the day gets started. I’m confident, but it’s earned confidence. I have worked hard and smart…
People talk about the self defense benefits of BJJ, but two other areas: FIRST - learning to fall. Was watching a video of Wemby (7’5 guy on the San Antonio Spurs) fall and he doesn’t know how to fall. Falling and hitting your…
As Jim Carrey once said in Liar Liar, “I hold myself in contempt” I hold myself to an insanely high standard. That standard has costs. Yesterday, I had a toddler like meltdown, which, unfortunately, was a cost. I will be better…